Love & Lust
Relationships surviving these stressful times
In the times where personal space between the couples was the newest hype, the most sought after hashtag, lockdown, is the latest upheaval for married couples. ‘Stuck together’ for several weeks is perhaps their continuous thought process.
But human machine is too intelligent, especially the married ones. They have maneuvered ways to co-exist peacefully, white flags up in most households. Even the homes of Bollywood celebrities!
Let’s wait until corona passes away to witness what impact does it finally leaves behind including Bollywood power couples!
Let’s have a look!
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Recipe for love
mix two cups of fellowship, 2 tablespoons of comprehension and some drops of patience. Affection, lots of affection. Add friendship and generosity. Don’t forget the baking powder of love. In the filling, put a great amount of tenderness and joy. For the icing, spread lots of smiles and hugs. Garnish with passion. To finish add lots of kisses.
Love! Indeed a beautiful emotion, which lays the foundation of two souls connecting together. It is wondrous how love steadily and unknowingly creeps up on you and before you know, you are committed to someone for their happiness, which inadvertently becomes your own.
As you draw closer to a person, a desire to know them at a more intimate level becomes stronger and during this course of finding each other, you often get into tiffs that ruin your relationship.
Love indeed is peace and solitude shared in silence, a blending of dreams, hopes and aspirations to work towards a beautiful life in unison.
The most usual tiffs between lovers begin with jealousy that creeps up when you witness your loved one with someone else. It is nothing but an intense sentiment that is spurred on by possessiveness and a tinge of proprietary. When someone else seems to be getting close to the one you love, an insecurity surfaces, and without any rationale thought, you tend to pick up a fight, hurting your partner in the process. But wait, will you please?
And before distancing yourself from your partner, just pause and rewind all the moments you have spent with them.
Keep aside your ego and communicate with them. Transmit your anger and give them a chance to explain.
Love is a promise that says ‘I pledge to be your confederate when you are sad; to show you compassion when you are solitary’.
Each relationship is unique, why let it become clichéd? You know your partner as no one else does. Trust your bond and fight it out with them. What say, have a pillow fight with them and vent out your anger but then hug them tight and close your eyes. Imagine how bleak the world would be without them by your side.
Every relationship needs to be worked upon. We have to give our partners space and we need to understand their situation and emotions. Indeed, it hurts, when you see your partner laughing or even acknowledging someone else intimately, but if you are mature, take that moment positively. Understand that they chose you from the crowd of millions.
Love says, ‘We are two imperfect people but we cannot live without each other, so let’s work at being perfect for each other in our imperfections’
So, while having a lovers tiff, ponder over these few words, and then go ahead to make it or break it. The choice is ultimately all yours.
Why not go for these light hearted moments after a tiff?
- Take them out for a long drive
- Pamper them with gifts they love
- Hold their hand, look deep in their eyes (who says this form of intimacy is outdated)
- Be intimate, passionately close
- Scintillate them with your scent
- Be playful with them
- Communicate with them, and let them know they are the reason for your smiles
- Make them aware of your depth of commitment